The lover’s Heart


This is a blog for every man that must be read by the woman in his life. It is a love letter from a precious wife to her great husband. It is an outpouring of every word she has in mind to her lover.

Do you think we should call any man “good” who dares lift up his hand to slap his wife? The woman was specially created to add beauty to her man’s life but when you men refuse to adore and treat us with tender care, how do you want us to respond? The man is naturally created to be a giver, which simply means he only receives double if not more of what he gives his woman. Give love to your woman and earn unlimited joy. Shower her with praise and see her treat you like the King you are. Respect her and she will guard your life with all she’s got.

“I remember one of the text messages I sent to my spouse some years ago, it reads, “Give me a house and I’ll turn it into a home for you; give me a chapter of your dream book and I’ll deliver a best seller book to you, plant your seed in me and I’ll give you great kids in return; give me just little money and I’ll cook a king’s delicacy for you; give me daily smiles and I’ll make you happy all the days of your life. Proverbs 31:12.”

That was an excerpt from my book, Embodiment of Grace: What every woman should be to her man

Every good husband should be a great lover. A good husband is the man who is up to the task of making his wife happy. Every woman is beautiful; it only takes the lover’s touch of her man sometimes to bring back the faded beauty. Some women are living in misery today because they fell in the hands of the “bad men”. Embedded in every man is goodness and greatness, all you need to do is treat that woman of yours with all sweetness. Do not forget to always tickle the girl in her. She really wants to be carried at times and do not forget to buy her gifts. I hope you still remember the gifts she loves after all you courted her before marrying her. She wants to be carried on your back. And oh she needs you to be more romantic and be her boyfriend all over again. This is because she loves to play with you. Throw the pillows, walk hand-in-hand in the garden, go for vacation together. Let her take a day off from the kitchen once in a while, you can decide to take her out for dinner or lunch. Date that woman of yours all over again.

Your woman needs you to fall in love with her over and over. She only needs you to never stop loving her through the thick and thin. She needs you not to keep secrets, it hurts her when you don’t trust her enough with your struggles and defeat; and this is because she wants to comfort you being your number one cheer leader. She knows you are human and needs help at times. She is always there waiting for you to lean on her shoulder when your strength can no longer carry you.

Who say men don’t cry? Your wife wants to wipe those tears away before they find their way down your cheeks, she wants to always soothe your pains away ; only that you keep shutting her out of your life. You are her hero, mentor and role model. She wants to share your sad moment and celebrate your victory with you. So she needs to hear that she is very important in your life and comes before the kids. She does not want to be relegated or substituted. She wants to be re-assured always that she is your “one and only” and still occupies the hottest spot in your heart. Most importantly, she wants to grow old with you finishing strong.


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